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la_vie_noire ([personal profile] la_vie_noire) wrote2009-11-17 06:25 pm
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IMPORTANT PROCRASTINATION NOTICE

Via [personal profile] shewhohashope.

From this discussion about manpain in fiction came this thing of beauty, FLOWCHART: HOW TO TELL YOUR PAIN IS ~~***MANPAIN***~~.

I personally love [livejournal.com profile] yeloson's definition:

Normal pain either gets dealt with and forgotten or not dealt with and forgotten as part of the narrative- it's a "one-time" event that doesn't really get much mention after it happens. "Oh, too bad"

Manpain, is super important and life defining, even if it's normally not that big of a deal, because a man is feeling it, and using his supreme angst to drive forward in doing weird obsessive compulsive things and it shows you he's not really a dick, but a wounded person who just needs true wuv to assuage the everlasting pain that defines his life. "ZOMG YOU ARE CHANGED FOREVERZ"

[identity profile] laurus-nobilis.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, wow, that flowchart. XD

I'd never heard the term "manpain", though. Everything in that flowchart is what I'd simply call wangst.

[identity profile] la-vie-noire.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Sí, pero la diferencia es que solo los hombres la sienten. Ya sabes, eso que lo hace más admirable y manly, o interesante o lo que sea porque tiene _dolor interior_ Nunca se romantiza tanto el dolor femenino, pues.
ext_2023: (sad)

[identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Men who aren't seen as manly enough always get called whiney rather than in manpan. See Shinji Ikari ^^

This flowchart is genius, and I like the def you quoted.

[identity profile] la-vie-noire.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Aaaaaaaah, Shinji. So true that.

[identity profile] laurus-nobilis.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Nunca se romantiza tanto el dolor femenino, pues.
... la verdad que estoy buscando una versión femenina de Fay o Subaru o Batman y, no, no se me ocurre.

[identity profile] la-vie-noire.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Da igual, porque no es lo mismo. Compara a Balsa con Kenshin, o... Buffy con Angel. Nunca es MANPAIN.

[identity profile] fujurpreux.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Hay un cómic de Elseworlds que pasa en Japón con femme!ninja!Batman, pero eso sólo fue para poder emparejarla con Supermán y


DUN DUN DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN


Matarla al final. |DDDDDD

[identity profile] la-vie-noire.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)
........ psssst. ¬¬ Y yo la hubiera fangirleado. Dios sabe que quiero ese angst. XD

[identity profile] la-vie-noire.livejournal.com 2009-11-17 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Asghjsjsks Gracias Fu! &hearts