la_vie_noire: (Stop with the idiocy)
la_vie_noire ([personal profile] la_vie_noire) wrote2010-12-26 11:46 pm
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[personal profile] buria_q 2010-12-27 04:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Man, that was rubbish advice with a sachharine cutesy flair. wtf?

Also kind of interesting hearing another regional perspective on getting dates, having always been in regions (NYC, MA college towns) with larger populations of people who would fit a similar description (geeky, small, glbt etc). I don't want to stereotype the South as one monolith, either. There are probably communities that are a bit subtler but still present where this person lives; I would feel really weird giving advice on places I know nothing about.

In Massachusetts "women's college" settings, I remember seeing some amount of fetishization of trans men by cis queer women alongside transmisogyny by the same crowd.