Yes. ♥ Most definitely. I remember I once talked to someone begging who had lost the use of one limb (I don't remember the specifics, sorry, this was really long ago) and he said (on the topic of drawing attention), well, it's not that he's looking for pity, but if he can use it to help him in what he's doing, then he will. Something like that. It brought me up short, and remembering it is bringing me up short too. And I'm askldhfing at what I said earlier (AHHHH ASLDKHF), but it's been said, what can I do? Except apologize and keep working on it and remember not to question, but to help.

So, thank you, too, for giving me a lot to think about! I really love having these discussions with you.