it's okay, and you can link (or else i WOULD have friendslocked it), i don't mind.

hers isn't the most egregious example necessarily, but it's all too common with cis people who want to think they're enlightened and understand trans stuff with regards to gender but fucking don't -- and really aren't interested in being called out on their ignorance and cis privilege.

and honestly? the negative comments at Renee's blog are not substantially different in any way from the negative comments she calls out from Bossip.